QAQAQ is a Sunday post by Xio Ruth where she offers solutions to people's dilemma. Talk about your problem and read what it's all about here.
Situation: My boyfriend used to be my best friend. Not that he's not my best friend anymore but our relationship has developed from best friendship to a romantic relationship. Not only is he my best friend but we're childhood friends. I knew him since we were introduced at kindergarten. He lives right across our house and we grew very close growing up. He's been courting me for 3 years before I finally agreed to the relationship. Now, here's my problem: We're both freshman in college at different Universities. He'd call each night to ask about my day. While that would sound sweet, I find him annoying already. I have things to worry about in school and he'd bother me with his calls while I'm studying. Going to college, I never missed him. To get things worst, I met a guy whom I think I'm really attracted with. He's not a classmate, not even from the same building. But he's staying at the Men's dormitory right across ours. The reason why I could say that I'm really attracted with this guy is because I've never had sex with my boyfriend. I just never went that route. I've read your previous qaqaq and I just thought that I understand what you're saying. Not that I have a religious belief that I'm not giving up my virginity. In fact, I'm an atheist. We don't have religion back at home. Anyway, it's just that every time I'm around with this guy, I'm just so aroused. And the thing is, even if I have a boyfriend, I'm not even guilty. What will I do? My boyfriend really worked hard to get me. And now that I'm his, I'm liking someone else.