I answered ThoughtCatalog's "50 Questions To Ask A Girl If You Want To Get To Know Her ASAP" and it was nuts.

So I saw this in my notes drafted on 2017 and I just thought I might just as well finish it (and perhaps other notes too).

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  1. What's one thing that's happened to you that has made you a stronger person?
  2. I was a victim of extortion when I was nine. In a snap, Vegeta of Dragonball Z became my spirit 2D-character that I have become so skeptic and unapproachable as a person, and that made me tenacious along the way.
  3. What’s one thing that’s happened to you in your life that made you feel weak?
  4. My sister has Borderline Personality Disorder and I was the only one who saw it (my mother won't believe me when I told her how crazy my sister was). She's a year older and a head taller back when I was a kid. Until I was fifteen, when she would feel down because of her irrational feelings, she would take that ill feeling on me and hit me on the head until I'd lose my consciousness. Those were the times I feel so small and weak. My home should be a safe place but my own family are the ones hurting me.
  5. Where is one place you feel most like yourself?
  6. Maybe just anywhere that could make me feel comfortable wearing goth lolita outfits without being judged, so perhaps back at my university.
  7. Where is your favorite place to escape to?
  8. Karaoke at a mall so I could scream my lungs out with some rock songs. Too bad, this pandemic sucks. Establishments for amusement are closed.
  9. Who do you think has had the largest influence on the person you are today?
  10. Nobody in particular, but I somewhat emulate a few select traits from anime villains in my pre-teens.
  11. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
  12. I wish I don't have mental problems.
  13. If you had one day left to live, what would you do first?
  14. Even if I dislike my family, just to be practical, I will tell my mother details of my bank accounts and life insurances.
  15. What decade do you feel you most belong in?
  16. 2000-2009.
  17. Who are you closest to in your family? Why?
  18. Nobody. My heart is just full of resentment.
  19. Who is the one person in this world who knows you best?
  20. I have no idea.
  21. What is your favorite quality about your best friend?
  22. I don't have a best friend.
  23. When you were younger, what did you think you were going to be when you grew up?
  24. Scientist.
  25. If you could identify with one fictional character (from a book, show, or movie), who would it be?
  26. Uchiha Itachi. XD
  27. Do you easily accept compliments? Or do you hate compliments?
  28. I'm neutral.
  29. Is your favorite attribute about yourself physical or nonphysical?
  30. Nonphysical. I don't look visually appealing to begin with.
  31. What is your favorite physical attribute about yourself?
  32. Again, I don't look good, so I'd make myself look good. I love body modification. For now, I love my asymmetrical ears with multiple piercings.
  33. What is your favorite nonphysical attribute about yourself?
  34. Used to be my two types of clairvoyance but I lost access to them, so I would like to say just being intelligent.
  35. Do you believe in love at first sight?
  36. As a teenager, yes. But as I get older, no. You need to know the person first.
  37. Do you believe in soul mates?
  38. No. There was a study (I think in Stanford) that by biochemistry alone, each one of us is compatible with at least 1,500 people. It's just a matter of who you meet first, who you have shared interests with, who you can relate to due to similar experiences. It's up to you to choose who you want to be with.
  39. How seriously do you take horoscopes?
  40. I don't.
  41. Have you ever been in love? How many times?
  42. Yes, at least thrice.
  43. What makes you fall in love with someone?
  44. For the last two, the first factor is the voice. I have a voice complex. Some details came later on. Okay, I thought they liked me first. When one expressed that he's happy being with me (on an online game), somehow, that tugged at my heart. I woke up the next day finding myself reciprocating his feelings (or so I thought).
  45. What does vulnerability mean to you? What has the ability to make you vulnerable?
  46. I'm a very insecure person. Just about anything can make me vulnerable. I also have depression, anxiety, and bipolar personality disorder. Anything could just upset or trigger me.
  47. What’s one thing you’re scared to ask a man, but really want to?
  48. As a very curious person, I'm never scared to ask anyone about anything. And yes, I get blocked and unfriended a lot because of my tenacity in asking people questions. I've been called out for being insensitive. But damn, no one can be honest with me. If I'm not met with lies, I would meet a wall.
  49. If you were a man for a day, what would be the first thing you do?
  50. Jack off. I would like to know how it feels like for a man when he reaches 0rgasm.
  51. What do you find most attractive about each sex?
  52. Just the voice. Like I said, I have a voice complex.
  53. What’s one thing you’d love to learn more about?
  54. Some stuff that's banned on search engines. There's a term for that thing but I forgot what it's called.
  55. What is something you’ve never done that you’ve always wanted to do?
  56. Exploring the world.
  57. Why haven’t you done it yet?
  58. Lack of money and lack of friends to accompany me. I'm only 4'9" in height. I may be in my 30s, still, it's scary traveling alone. With my small stature, if I fall down, anyone could just trample me.
  59. If money didn’t matter, what would your dream job be?
  60. Scientist.
  61. If you had off from work today, what would you do?
  62. Just chill. And that's only if my mind is not whirring from negative thoughts.
  63. What was the last thing that made you cry?
  64. Just thinking about my resentments in life.
  65. What was the last thing that made you laugh?
  66. Watching MrBeast's videos.
  67. What is your favorite memory?
  68. I was late in the train for appreciating The Lord of the Rings. Still, I reminisce the feeling of happiness when I read anything about the films, leafing through the magazines as I read about the behind the scenes.
  69. What’s the last thing that REALLY embarrassed you?
  70. Nothing in particular. Maybe saying something that would make me be perceived as stupid.
  71. What is your biggest fear?
  72. To die early.
  73. Do you have any regrets? What’s your biggest one?
  74. A lot. Being a dropout in college would be the biggest one.
  75. Have you ever broken a law? If you haven’t, what is one law you’d love to break?
  76. I haven't broken a law yet. But I would love to overspeed, which would mean that I have my own car and more importantly, that I have gone past my fear of handling myself when it comes to roads (crossing the road, driving). I have a great fear in crossing roads. I avoid roads. I basically go out of my neighborhood once every two months. There was at least half a decade that I was on the road for only five to six times a year. I only go out every month now since I have braces, just to get to my dentist's appointments. We're on fortunate times, we can just shop online for everything.
  77. What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done?
  78. Unplanned rock hopping and climbing. I love it. I ruined my friends' vacation in the process. They unfriended me after that.
  79. Would you have a conversation with a stranger?
  80. Yes. I do a lot in queues.
  81. Would you tell a stranger they have toilet paper hanging from their shoe? Or their dress tucked into their underwear? (Or anything else that is embarrassing to be seen in public)?
  82. Yes. I myself experienced having my dress tucked into my safety shorts.
  83. What’s your favorite joke?
  84. Puns.
  85. Are you a dog person or a cat person?
  86. Definitely a dog person.
  87. If you could be any animal, what animal would you be?
  88. Wolf, so I can run fast, stalk a prey, then bite. Eagle, so I can fly high up in the sky.
  89. What’s one show, movie, or book, you’re embarrassed to admit you enjoy?
  90. Ugly bastard hent@i shows.
  91. How do you think your parents would describe you as a child?
  92. Mother: problem child
    Father: scary child
  93. If you could go back to any age or time of your life, what age or time would it be?
  94. Fifteen, just as I entered college, that time when I'd be turning 16 in a few weeks' time. I wish to not mess up my college life again.
  95. What’s something you believe in that not everyone else does?
  96. That we live in a multiverse.
  97. What’s one thing you would say that makes you unique from other people?
  98. I don't believe in uniqueness. You can group a lot of people in different ways. Someone always belongs in a group, so nobody is unique.
  99. What is one thing you feel your life is missing?
  100. Love life. People don't like me. :(

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